Ever met your girlfriend’s personal person with their side dish or probably its their main chick and that makes your friend the other woman? Im on it this time around, stay tuned.
After a couple of conversations with myself, l assured myself that l am not going to mess up someone’s daughter’s idea of a fairytale kinda like relationship because l saw her boyfriend in a questionable position. l am neither ready nor young enough for the unnecessary drama that will follow after playing the “concerned friend” role. I know its a story that my girlfriend wouldn’t want to hear late alone believe.
Her boyfriend is a cheat and l simply watch him playing the game.
Lets lay the cards on the table and trade carefully.
1.Who wants to be labelled a boyfriend snatcher
No one, right and not me either.
I definitely crush on people’s people (in a good way) sometimes but snatching people’s boyfriends is not my cup of coffe and l am not even willing to go the lengths, the heights or the lows of being labelled one. For the sake of my integrity and self respect. I am too young to feature on H-Metro’s front page and for that l will spare myself the drama.
2.Who wants to look like a fool?
You definitely don’t want to look like one and that’s my que too.
If you know Zvemoyo by Takura and Kana wazofunga by Qounfused ft Pah Chihera you will totally understand where l am coming from. At the end of the day when two people who share the world called ‘love‘ patch up their torn garments and find their way to each other’s arms, they will refer you as a traitor. I know ‘Mr Cheater’ will go by, “She is envious of our relationship babe, she wants to snatch away what we have“, and ‘Miss Manipulated’ will warm up with, “l know babe, she is jealous, l think she doesn’t like you“. At the end of the day l look like a damn fool with an Honors Degree in Breaking Relationships. No way, l am not up for that crap.
3.Who wants to sound bitter?
I see you don’t want to be part of the team and l wont tag along too.
In a world were single women are sometimes tagged angry and bitter, l don’t want to affirm that stupidity by sounding like l am bitter and angry too. Remember the weird face she gave you when you told her truth about his bae, remember how she fought you tooth and nail, remember how she defended her like you are the one who persisted to see him for who he is. You were left dumbstruck by how she didn’t hesitate to say, “you are mistaken, you probably have a problem with him l know nothing about and l can’t let you ruin our relationship to fancy your crazy ego”, she even added a rough accent to that. So tell me why should be part of this, l know for a fact that l can’t.
Sounds offensive? I know and l am sticking to that.
Side note: Dear girlfriend, l love you but l am always conquered by how people who are blindly in love can be easily manipulated by their partners to turn against those who want nothing but the best for them as way of covering up their dirty games. If you fail to read the signs, then you have to read in between the lines.